While having a good sex life can’t solve all marriage problems, it certainly goes a long way towards easing the tensions. Psychologist Ian Kerner, a New York City-based sex therapist, says, ”I’m seeing a lot more couples with mismatched libidos, often guys who are unemployed or stressed about their job security and experiencing low-level depression, which has a deleterious effect on their desire.” And wives are left feeling, well, undesired.
