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Problem gambling can shake every aspect of one’s life – particularly a marriage, which can crumble under the weight of financial stress and betrayal. But Dr. Bonnie Lee says the relationship between gambling and marital stress isn’t as straightforward as many assume. “Most people think linearly, ‘Look what problem gambling did,’” argues the assistant professor in the Addictions Counselling program in the School of Health Sciences. “They’re less aware that maybe those problems were there in the first place.” “These couples had problems in their relationships – I call them ‘fault lines’ – far before the gambling problems began.” Lee thinks helping gamblers and depressed individuals in the context of couple therapy can pay huge dividends. By repairing the foundation of a couple’s relationship, one makes available to both partners an invaluable life resource in support and understanding that bolsters recovery.